未來妻子（續）

牛郎阿飛 · 發表于 2010-1-26 22:58:36

什么是幸福的人生呢？應該就是“守著自己喜歡的人，做自己喜歡的事業”吧。愛情就像一個盒子，我們就叫它“月光寶盒”吧，需要兩個人向里面放東西，里面的東西豐富了，你才能夠從里面取你喜歡的東西。只知道取不知道放，這個盒子早晚會空的！

What is the happiness life? The answer is to accompany a girl who you love and to do the business you like. Love likes a box, we can call it “moonlight box ” here, it needs we to put something into, it will be full of many good things, then you can get what you want from it. If you only want to get but forget to put something into it, it will be empty sooner or later.

近來看了翟鴻燊教授的視頻講座，感覺工作又注入了激情。一個人的思想格局決定他將來的成就，格局很小的人，每天都會被生活中、工作中的“小事”所累，心煩的時候就難免說一些抱怨的話，遇到困難就難免說一些喪氣的話，遇到矛盾沖突的時候就會說一些傷人的話，進而把你的形象、你的威信給降低了，你辦事能力也會在你的抱怨中減退！

Recently, I saw the video class of professor Zhai hongshen on line, my work is
full of passion again. The bigger the structure of thinking is, the bigger your future business is. If you only have a small structure of thinking, you will be fed up with many small things in life and work, maybe you will keep griping; you will hurt somebody when you are in trouble, those will make your effect cut down, your capability will be some decrease in griping.

一個人的哲學思想體系決定你的格局的大小。

Your philosophy will decide how far your thinking is.

最近工作努力了，學習耽誤了。每天學英語的時間少，累的時候就不想學，不想學時看書效果極差。還是自己的時間安排的不好吧，怪不得工作，也怪不得他人。每天沒有進步心里都急，急也沒用。現在的處境是你兩年前的努力決定的，現在的努力決定你兩年后的處境。真理！

I worked hard lately, but don’t study English hard. The time I study is less and less, I don’t want to read when I am tired after work. At the moment, the reading efficiency is too bed. I can’t arrange my time well, it’s not work and others fault, it’s my fault. I am all of a sweat if I make no progress, but it won’t help me anymore. Your place is decided by the effort you do 2 year before, now your effort will decide your future place 2 ago. True!

人到啥年齡就要辦啥事兒，應該是這樣吧。要不怎么會說“男大當婚，女大當嫁”呢？結婚是一件有意思的事情，你想想：女孩子離開了自己生活的20多年的地方和親人，因為你，來到一個全新的環境，要處理全新的人際關系，要適應新的水土。著實有點不容易吧？幸福在后面，萬事開頭難。

As your age is getting old, you have to think about traditional thing. Such as marriage, everyone will get it. Marriage is interested , you see: a girl will leave her hometown where her have life for 20 more years and then arrive a new environment to live with you, her have to get long with new relation. It is really not easy for a girl? The fist step to happiness is difficult.

那就跟你約法三章吧：

　　　　　　　我們的宗旨是以和為貴；

我們的目標是白頭偕老；

我們的方法是心心相印。

　　　　　　　Let set up three promises together:

　　　　　　　Our tenet is friendship;

　　　　　　　Our aim is life together happily;

　　　　　　　Our means is to consider each other first